Trust Is the IMPORTANT Thing Which Helps You to Reach a Healthy Relationship!

To be able to rely on someone wholeheartedly with no fear that they will let you down, that is the meaning of trust.

Relationships are really quite a lot of work. I can understand why so many people think that it is all so complicated. Despite having love, honesty, the commitment you cannot simply say I am honest and that's enough. All these little titbits contribute to making your relationship as healthy and happy as it can ever be.

One of the most fundamental values is trust. Without that in a relationship, everything that you know threatens to crumble before your very own eyes. To be able to put your life and feelings aside for those people that you care about with the hope that they will not do anything to violate that choice is indeed a great thing.

Most people wonder, how long does it take to truly rely on someone? Most times you tell yourself that you will not just place confidence in strangers, people you barely know, but often that is exactly what happens.

Within Varying Environments trust takes up a longer period of time.

Appearance, without us even realising it, plays a part in whether we will be able to place confidence in someone.

This is especially true when we are talking about a work environment, a professional environment whereby you need medical advice, financial advice or even an opinion on the kind of house that is appropriate with you.

We often talk about how hard it is to place confidence in people and yet at a subconscious level we do it all the while. Even in the street as you pass different people, what makes you comfortable to walk beside someone you barely even know and yet feel safe?

These are just a few isolated incidences whereby trust is based on appearance, but even then, it is not solely based on that.

A Good Recommendation is actually quite important. So in essence trust is earned. It does not necessarily happen overnight but the sad reality is that after years and years of trying to build that trust, it can all come tumbling down within seconds.


As is the problem in all relationships we always want want want, without really giving anything back. We want and have this need to have people believe us but often we do not give anything back.

What is it then that will enable another person to rely on you? Before you can even ask whether anyone trusts you the question you should ask is: Am I trustworthy?


1. Level of honesty in your relationship: You will find that the more open and truthful you are, the more likely you are to gain the confidence of those around you.

2. What you give is what you get: Whilst this might seem untrue, it is usually the case in most relationships. The more one is willing to share some important details of their life, the more your friends/family/partner will want to share with you. So the more you show confidence in others, the more they will show confidence in you.

3. Are you loyal?: Loyalty is definitely a plus in relationships. Most of us have friends, but the question is will they stick by us till the end. If your friends and family show you unwavering support, no matter the situation, you are more likely to be drawn towards them because you know for a fact that they have your back. 

4. Do you have self-restraint?: There is nothing more frustrating than sharing some important aspect of your life only to hear them being parroted by someone else. If someone is willing to share important things with you then you should keep your word and not divulge to the whole world.

It is important so that you are able to move forward in your Relationship. We all look for it, we all want it but sometimes painful memories hold us down and disallow us a chance of even comprehending the fact that you can ever rely and depend on people.

But it can be done. It might take a while, years even but gradually you will be able to rely on people again. 
Trust Is the IMPORTANT Thing Which Helps You to Reach a Healthy Relationship! Trust Is the IMPORTANT Thing Which Helps You to Reach a Healthy Relationship! Reviewed by Chai With Sutta on May 06, 2019 Rating: 5
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